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Gay Twitter Claps Back at Steve Grand After He Says People Love to Hate Hot White Gay Men
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Gay Twitter Claps Back at Steve Grand After He Says People Love to Hate Hot White Gay Men

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March 22, 2016
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Country singer Steve Grand may have made strides when he became one of the first openly gay artists in the genre, but his recent comments on the pains of being young, white, gay, male and attractive isn't earning him any points — in fact, it's doing just the opposite.

In an interview with Pride Source, the singer responded to some backlash about flaunting his body, but got into more hot water when he said, "I just know people have really, really low expectations of me and that's what the internet does. I'm such an easy person to target."

And then the kicker, "Young, good-looking, white, gay men — we love to hate those people," Grand said.

https://youtu.be/deVHOC7F0UA . Pride Edition Ts by @bassackwardstee now available! Get yours at http://www.bassackwardstees.com/#!steve-grand/rogbw ... pic.twitter.com/oQ3Z5EDU2g

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Read more: What #TweetLikeAWhiteGay Exposes About the Unspoken Race Issues Dividing the Gay Community

Twitter users wasted no time telling Grand that he'd missed a point (or two) about the nuances of identity politics:

@SteveGrandMusic feels that we just LOVE to hate good looking white gay men. Damn they have it so hard. pic.twitter.com/VdfvqzIJ0T

What an idiot. Meanwhile, LGBT and intersex POC are being marginalized or worse, facing sterilization and brutalit... http://ift.tt/1PoDdUy

It's that time of the month where Steve Grand says something problematic & people get mad & then two minutes later call him "daddy" again.

Somehow my young white attractive gay friends manage to not post dumbass opinions all the time so maybe the problem is you Steve Grand?

not to be bitchy but hating young white good looking gay men *IS ACTUALLY so much fun, you can't really blame people for loving it - so fun!

Steve Grand is the Ann Coulter of gay media.

While LGBT people may fight for many of the same goals, when sexual orientation and gender identity intersect with factors like race and class, things become more complicated than Grand let on. 

For one, men who don't have washboard abs like Grand's have markedly different experiences when it comes to engaging with their sexuality and finding their place. And while Grand might feel uncomfortable with the attention on his body, gay men of color can expect much worse, even when just browsing dating apps. 

Meanwhile, a recent Centers for Disease Control and Prevention study reported that 1 in 2 black gay men and 1 in 4 Latino gay men can expect to be HIV-positive if the current rate persists. Comparatively, 1 in 11 white gay men can expect the same.

Given that these stats are just the tip of the iceberg for gay folks, a Twitter user had some final words of wisdom for Grand, and people like him:

NEW RULE FOR GAY COMMUNITY: If you're white, pretty, & dumb, avoid giving your unsolicited opinion on race & gender. (cc: @SteveGrandMusic)

Grand responded to these critiques later on Twitter, admitting his opinions come from a "narrow, fallible perspective," but adding that he was really just "shooting the shit":

Sometimes, from my narrow, fallible perspective, it SEEMS we evaluate others more or less critically based on how much privilege they (cont)

cont) are perceived to have. Fair or not, right or wrong, this is what I OBSERVED, and what I was speaking to in that one part of a long int

Not everything has some implied value judgement attached to it, dontchaknow?? Sometimes we just shootin the shit

March 22, 2016, 12:40 p.m. Eastern: This story has been updated.

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Marie is a trending news staff writer based in New York. Her writing has appeared in Gothamist, The New York Observer and The Awl. You can reach her at marie@mic.com.
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