Actually, more recent research shows women are still the ones who usually take care of pregnancy prevention, even in long-term relationships.
And, as if that isn't enough of a mood killer, the truth is birth control tends to be — proportionately — a much bigger expense for women than men.
Most birth control methods aimed at women cost more than common options for males; plus, women experience a gender pay gap and earn lower salaries than men, even when controlled for education and occupation. Frustrating.
Just how much more are women paying compared to men? Let's take a look.
Birth control methods carry very different costs for men versus women
Although both men and women need birth control, women are typically the ones paying for IUDs and pills used to prevent pregnancy — since they're the ones who visit the doctor.
Furthermore, while women have more options for birth control methods, those choices tend to be more expensive. The chart below shows common per-dose prices of birth control methods available to men and women.
A woman on the pill could spend up to $50 monthly — or $600 annually — according to Healthline. And that's not even factoring in the cost of a doctor's visit to get the prescription.
If a man paid $1 for condom every time he had sex, he'd need to get busy 50 times a month to spend the same amount.
Men's Fitness reported the average American has sex 103 times a year, which averages roughly nine times a month. If you compare a $9 condom expense — one for each of those nine times — to a $50 price tag for a pill prescription, the problem becomes more obvious.
What birth control methods are most popular?
What are women doing instead? According to Guttmacher Institute, 12% use an implant or IUD; 26% rely on oral contraceptives; and 25% use female sterilization. Fourteen percent of women use other methods.
Kaiser Family Foundation provides similar numbers, but their data — from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention — shows slightly higher condom use and more reliance on male vasectomy.
Kaiser shows about 23% of women ages 15 to 44 rely on male condoms, whereas 9% rely on male sterilization. Still, the majority of women used other approaches including hormonal pills (roughly 27%) and IUDs (about 11%).
Furthermore, women also face other birth control challenges men don't. For example, doctors are sometimes reluctant to perform sterilization procedures on young women, even if the women don't want kids.
Permanent birth control can be riskier for women, too. WebMD warns that while a vasectomy is generally "simple and safe" with a low risk of infection or bleeding, a tubal ligation carries risks including "bleeding, infection, damage to other organs, side effects from anesthesia and ectopic pregnancy."
What are potential solutions to the birth control gender gap?
For now, at least, the Affordable Care Act has brought birth control costs down dramatically: The ACA's contraceptive mandate resulted in $4.1 billion dollars in out-of-pocket savings, according to Kaiser.
The bad news is the ACA's future remains uncertain.
Another innovation that could help lower costs for women is a male birth control pill. A 2015 survey by the Kaiser Family Foundation showed that 66% of men were willing to take a male birth control pill; 44% would get a shot; and 36% were interested in birth control implants, U.S. News reported.
Unfortunately, recent research into male birth control options was suspended.
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