Memorial Day 2013: A Day Mixed With Sadness, Pride and Even Anger

I was taught as a young man that there were three holidays to explicitly honor the Military and its contributions to freedom. I have no sources and no proof that this is correct. But, it makes sense to me and I hope it will to you as well (BTW, if I am factually wrong, feel free to point it out).

The first is Armed Forces Day. It is celebrated to thank the contributions of everyone who has ever served in the Military whether in peace or war. It doesn't matter if they served three years or 30. Just the fact that they served is enough.

Next on the list was Veterans Day. This was to celebrate the sacrifices and accomplishments of our military men and women who served in time of war. Not much more to say there.

Finally there is Memorial Day. Here we pause, reflect, and give thanks to those who died in service to the nation. 

As you and I hit the holiday sales and enjoy a day off from work, please pause, only for a moment if you will, and let a little gratitude come out. Dwell for a minute or two on the men and women who gave everything they had in this world to ensure that you and I could do pretty much as we please. And if you get the chance to console someone who lost a friend, or a loved one in the service, try to help him or her as well.

Today is Memorial Day. To a lot of folks it is just another day off of work or a really good shopping day. To some (notably recent HS graduates) it marks the beginning of "adult" life. To others it marks the beginning of the official summer time BBQ and bikini season. Then, to a relatively small group of Americans, it is a day mixed with sadness and pride or even anger.

To me it is the latter. I have lost friends over the course of my time in the Marine Corps. Some died in Beirut in 1983. They will be 19 forever.

Then, there are friends who died on active duty in training accidents, car wrecks, cancer etc. Their loss is no less tragic. I also know Marines killed in the wars and rumors of war that spanned the 1980s through and post 9/11. So today is for the memory of all of them.

We will drink to their memory and visit a local cemetery. We will look at the flag and realize that it is different things to different people. 

But most importantly, the thing we must all do is to carry on. We cannot waver in our resolve to be (stealing an Army line) "all you can be." This means that folks who normally oppose each other on issues will continue to do so. It means that, to quote Teddy Roosevelt, we must continue to be the "man in the arena" for whatever purpose that is.

Another appropriate quote comes to mind: "It is foolish and wrong to mourn the men who died. Rather we should thank God that such men lived" — George S. Patton

To do any less is to dishonor the memories of all those who died for us.

Thanks.

Originally published in The Realist Blog as two shorter posts. The originals are here and here.

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Phil Gwinn

I am Right of Gengis Khan on some things & Left of Justice Ginsburg on others. So I average to Center. Adamant Independent, MSgt/USMC Retired.

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