Life is complicated. It doesn’t seem to get any easier as we get older, and supposedly “figure things out.” If we don’t cultivate practices for living a happy life now, we may never do it. Here are 20 easy ways that we can simplify life to its happiest and prioritize what really matters. In no particular order …
As far as it depends on you, walk away from work at a reasonable time each day.
It will clear away some clutter in your life. Besides, what you really want to watch, you can watch on your computer.
Do not multitask while eating. Savor. Put your utensil down between each bite.
Even if that is a simple walk. Savor the gift of movement.
...whenever you want. (Men, this applies to you too!)
Give yourself license to say what you think and what you need and what you truly believe. On the flip side, don't lie. Keeping up lies complicates your life. Make life simple and tell the truth. As Mark Twain said, "If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything."
...and also “what would I rather (eventually) buy instead?”
Look people in the eye when speaking with them. No telephones at the table, except maybe occasionally to take photos.
Even better, walk and bike.
This is a practice of many great leaders. It will clear your head and your inbox.
Caring for something else brings simple meaning to your life.
This gives you the chance to stay connected to important people without feeling pressured to check in all the time. This also gives you the chance to reflect on your year. Besides, deciding whom to send cards to each year is a good exercise in "pruning" and simplifying those relationships you choose to nurture.
Get rid of stuff that you haven't used in the past six months, instead of holding onto stuff and memorabilia.
Look around you. Do not text and walk.
One that brings you life. Bowling … stand up comedy … cooking … Habitat for Humanity … knitting … Dungeons and Dragons … Throw yourself into it and don’t apologize!
At least 15 minutes per day. Studies show that Vitamin D can boost your mood and prevent diseases such as Seasonal Affective Disorder, osteoporosis, and the flu.
Set up a yearly repeat reminder a few days before each one. On their birthday, tell them a specific reason why you appreciate them, and not just via Facebook.
Learn to cook something for breakfast/brunch (to impress a loved one), something to take to a dinner party or picnic (besides alcohol), and something cheap and nutritious that you can cook in bulk and freeze the leftovers (like soup or curry). Also remember: food with few ingredients is often tastier than those with more.
Life is too short to be cold and miserable … and to be awkward in professional situations.
Don't treat children like nuisances or distractions. Treat them like adults. Ask them about themselves. Nothing is more humbling than talking to a child and realizing they are just as complex as you.